Oddly Robbie

  • I Wasn’t Immune

    In a world that tells big men they’re immune to fear, I’ve learned strength doesn’t cancel vulnerability. Discover how self-protection can be calm and centered.

  • Autistic, Not Damaged

    I hear it again.Someone has “discovered” how to cure autism. A cure.As if my existence is a disease.As if the way I experience the world is a broken machine that needs fixing. Let me be clear: autism is not a damaged mind.It is not an illness.It is not something you “catch” or “erase.”It is a…

  • Why Being Shady Isn’t the Way to Keep Your Energy

    I’ve been thinking a lot lately about how we conserve our energy. Some folks believe that being shady—sarcastic, withholding, throwing side-eye, or wrapping everything in layers of snark—is a way of keeping their power. I used to watch it in others and wonder, is that really protecting them? Or is it just a slow leak?…

  • Don’t Tell Me to Look You in the Eye — Unless You’re Ready

    🖊️ by OddlyRobbie — One of One Preface: There’s a strange pressure in this world to look people in the eye. A social ritual. A signal of truth. But for folks like me—neurodivergent, hyper-attuned to the emotions you think you’re hiding— eye contact isn’t just a glance. It’s a floodlight. So I wrote this for…

  • 🖤 No Kings. No Silence. No Turning Back.

    What was meant to be a day of symbolism — No Kings Day — has now become a day of mourning. Two respected public servants, Minnesota Representative Melissa Hortman and her husband, Mark, were shot and killed in their home. In a separate but clearly coordinated attack, State Senator John Hoffman and his wife Yvette…

  • Peace Isn’t Passive: A 2AM Story of Showing Up

    By Oddly Robbie Living Calmly Amid Chaos For someone with autism, navigating life can often feel like trying to tune a radio stuck on static—noisy, unpredictable, fragmented. Yet amidst this chaos, I’ve found ways to cultivate an inner peace, a quiet steadiness. I’ve realized peace isn’t merely the absence of conflict; it’s actively maintaining boundaries,…

  • When the Curtain Closes: Finding Truth Beyond the Act

    There’s a moment—rare, fleeting, almost sacred—when the curtain closes, the lights dim, and the performance ends. It’s then we catch a glimpse of truth: people stop acting and simply become themselves. Much of life feels like a staged performance. We rehearse lines, wear costumes of conformity, and nod on cue. We perform because society expects…

  • Keeping Oddly Robbie

    The show must go on.

  • A Global Crossroads: Learning from History to Shape a Just Future

    Intro: When History Starts to Rhyme History has a way of whispering warnings before it shouts. Right now, across the world—from Germany to the U.S., Argentina to Hungary—we’re seeing familiar patterns emerge. Far-right movements are creeping back into power, rewriting history, scapegoating the vulnerable, and treating democracy like a suggestion rather than a foundation. If…

  • Blog Story: Kathy’s Journey – A Light in the Shadows

    Disclaimer: This is a fictional narrative inspired by real-world challenges to foster empathy and understanding. Ricks College, Rexburg, Idaho, 1983 Kathy sat in the sterile office of the campus doctor, her hands gripping her husband’s for comfort. Married for a year and glowing with the optimism of young love, they had eagerly begun planning for…

  • Don’t Underestimate the Cat: A Lesson in Respect, Loyalty, and Partnership

    When it comes to pets, cats often get saddled with the label “aloof,” as if they’re just small, furry philosophers judging you from the top of a bookshelf. But anyone who’s shared a home with a cat knows the truth: beneath their piercing eyes and occasional disdain lies a creature full of intelligence, emotion, and…

  • The T in LGBTQ+: Why Solidarity Matters More Than Ever

    Let’s break down the rainbow alphabet soup we all know: L for lesbian, B for bisexual, G for gay, T for transgender, and then the ever-expanding “+” for our beautiful diversity. But today, we’re hitting pause on the roll call to focus on one letter that’s catching an outsized amount of society’s heat: the T.…

  • Rising Above the Noise: We Are Not Alone

    Hello, dear readers. If you’re reading this, chances are you’ve felt it, too. That rising pressure in the air. The noise that comes not just from the headlines, but from the glances, the muttered words, the silences where there should be kindness. The world feels heavier, louder, sharper than it did before. And for many…

  • Finding Common Ground Amidst Global Conflicts

    In today’s interconnected world, it’s all too easy to become overwhelmed by the actions of powerful nations. Countries like Russia and the United States often dominate headlines with policies and decisions that stir feelings of frustration, anger, and even hopelessness. Yet, amidst this turmoil, it’s essential to remember a fundamental truth: our discontent should be…

  • Finding Peace in What Is: Lessons from Unfairness and Living Simply

    Hey there, fellow wanderers of life! It’s Oddly Robbie, back to reflect on some things that may have gone sideways in my life, but ultimately led me to a place of peace and fulfillment. Pull up a chair, pour yourself a cup of your favorite tea (or yerba mate if you’re feeling adventurous), and let’s…

  • The Thin Line Between Home and Homelessness: My Journey and the Fight for Housing Security

    The warmth of a home is something many of us take for granted. But for those of us who have faced the cold nights in a van, the reality is much harsher. Housing insecurity is not just about losing a roof over your head; it’s about losing the stability, safety, and dignity that come with…

  • Experiencing the World’s Cultural Diversity: My Journey Through Contrasting Cultures

    Hey, OddlyRobbie here! Traveling has given me more than just a bunch of stamps in my passport; it’s provided a front-row seat to the grand theater of global culture. From the disciplined dance of life in Japan to the passionate tango of Argentina, and from the cool, egalitarian vibe of Sweden to the deeply traditional…

  • The Light Within: A Tale of Revelation and Acceptance

    In the dim glow of a cozy, intimate room, a young man named Alex sat nervously beside his boyfriend, Max. The soft hum of the city outside created a distant lullaby, but inside, Alex’s heart raced like a drum. Tonight was the night he had chosen to reveal his deepest secret to Max, a truth…

  • Revenge: A Flawed Tale

    Revenge is often depicted as a path to justice or closure, but in reality, it’s a tale as flawed as asking a cow to perform ballet. Expecting someone devoid of empathy to feel remorse is as futile as expecting that cow to dance gracefully in a tutu. This cycle of retribution is a flawed loop…

  • Plan for Addressing Mass Incarceration: A Vision from Oddly Robbie

    ⚠️Content Warning: This post contains descriptions of violence and abuse within the prison system. It is intended for mature audiences only. Introduction: Hi, I’m Oddly Robbie, known for my work in VR, AR, and 3D design. Today, I want to share my vision for transforming the criminal justice system. Having spent almost seven years in…

  • From Heartland to Homeland: Jakob’s Journey and Our Shared Quest for Peace

    From Heartland to Homeland: Jakob’s Journey and Our Shared Quest for Peace

    (Warning: does mention violence.) In the heart of the tumultuous 19th century, my great-grandfather Jakob’s journey from Odessa to North Dakota stands as a beacon of resilience and the universal quest for peace. As a family historian, I’ve always felt deeply connected to my ancestors, particularly those who faced extraordinary challenges. Their stories, passed down…

  • Navigating My Journey from Suppression to Self-Expression: A Pride Reflection

    As we enter Pride Month, the streets come alive with vibrant floats, flags, and even the quest for biodegradable glitter. Yet, for many of us, Pride is more than a celebration; it’s a testament to resilience, a journey from suppression to self-expression. Early Years: The Weight of Cultural Suppression Growing up, my cultural background imposed…

  • Breaking Free: A Journey Through LDS Corrective Therapy

    Content Warning: This episode contains explicit content related to corrective therapy, including discussions of inappropriate behavior and emotional distress. Listener discretion is advised. Hello, wonderful readers! It’s your quirky friend Oddly Robbie here, ready to take you on a rollercoaster ride through one of the most challenging chapters of my life. Buckle up, because today…

  • When “Normal” Isn’t Working: Rethinking How We View Autism

    Hello OddlyRobbie readers, Scrolling through the news, I stumbled upon an article in Newsweek about new research on autism. I didn’t get past the paywall, but the premise was enough to stir my thoughts. It’s disheartening to see so much effort and funding dedicated to making us fit a “normal” that doesn’t even consider our…

  • Dehumanization: A Logical Perspective (special edition)

    Across various cultures, there’s often an implicit agreement to dehumanize neighboring communities. My aim here is not to justify this behavior or to label it as good or bad but rather to examine it from a logical perspective. Understanding Dehumanization Dehumanization enables us to mentally override our empathy and engage in acts like warfare against…

  • Cultural Carousel: My Global Jaunt

    Ah, the green Montanan turned Mormon missionary! Who would’ve guessed that jetting off to Japan would throw me onto a relentless cultural treadmill? There, my Japanese companion, a model of military discipline, set a grueling pace. Exhausted yet determined, I had no choice but to dive into the deep end of unfamiliar languages and customs.…

  • How having honest history can help us advance as humans, by OddlyRobbie

    The Unvarnished Chapters: Rediscovering Our Collective Saga In the intricate mosaic of human history, the tales that resonate loudest are often those penned by victors, leaving a swath of narratives untold, shrouded in the shadows of oversight. Today, I invite you on an expedition—not to unearth a continent anew, as European explorers once claimed, but…

  • Please have a rest and hear a short story: Human generated

    In the year 2029, the world is abuzz with the most groundbreaking archaeological finds in history. The discovery of Atlantis and El Dorado using state-of-the-art scanning technologies was just the beginning. The real turning point comes when a team of international archaeologists, employing a combination of lidar, x-ray imaging, and other advanced scanning techniques, stumbles…

  • What If Capybaras Ruled the Universe?” A Whimsical Dive into a Peaceful Realm

    Hey there, OddlyRobbie enthusiasts! Have you ever pondered a universe where the chill vibes of capybaras set the tone for our cosmic existence? Imagine a world where the serene and laid-back nature of these adorable creatures influenced every nook and cranny of the universe. Let’s embark on a quirky exploration of this capybara-ruled utopia, where…

  • Love Beyond Labels: Our Sambo Journey

    Hi everyone, Oddly Robbie here. Today, I’m sharing a deeply personal aspect of my life – my journey in a sambo relationship. This bond defies traditional labels, merging friendship, love, and individuality in a beautiful way. Understanding ‘Sambo’: ‘Sambo,’ a term rooted in Swedish culture, refers to a couple living together in a committed relationship,…