Oddly Robbie the Disruptor

  • Gay, Autistic, and Drained: When the Scene Isn’t Made for You

    By Oddly Robbie, One of One They’re calling it The Year of the Daddy—that golden age of confident silver foxes, gym-toned arms, and baritone TikToks claiming things like “soft dominance” and “zaddy energy.” Add a scruffy beard, wear a tank top that fits too well, and suddenly you’re seen. Constantly. And for someone like me—gay,…

  • My Daughter, the Paleontologist (And Other Radical Acts of Equality)

    By Oddly Robbie – One of One When I was a young dad, I made a quiet vow: I would never box my daughters into roles someone else carved out of thin air and outdated beliefs. Back then, in our little Mormon circle, it was common—almost expected—for little girls to say, “When I grow up,…

  • A Global Crossroads: Learning from History to Shape a Just Future

    Intro: When History Starts to Rhyme History has a way of whispering warnings before it shouts. Right now, across the world—from Germany to the U.S., Argentina to Hungary—we’re seeing familiar patterns emerge. Far-right movements are creeping back into power, rewriting history, scapegoating the vulnerable, and treating democracy like a suggestion rather than a foundation. If…

  • Blog Story: Kathy’s Journey – A Light in the Shadows

    Disclaimer: This is a fictional narrative inspired by real-world challenges to foster empathy and understanding. Ricks College, Rexburg, Idaho, 1983 Kathy sat in the sterile office of the campus doctor, her hands gripping her husband’s for comfort. Married for a year and glowing with the optimism of young love, they had eagerly begun planning for…

  • The T in LGBTQ+: Why Solidarity Matters More Than Ever

    Let’s break down the rainbow alphabet soup we all know: L for lesbian, B for bisexual, G for gay, T for transgender, and then the ever-expanding “+” for our beautiful diversity. But today, we’re hitting pause on the roll call to focus on one letter that’s catching an outsized amount of society’s heat: the T.…

  • Rising Above the Noise: We Are Not Alone

    Hello, dear readers. If you’re reading this, chances are you’ve felt it, too. That rising pressure in the air. The noise that comes not just from the headlines, but from the glances, the muttered words, the silences where there should be kindness. The world feels heavier, louder, sharper than it did before. And for many…

  • The Thin Line Between Home and Homelessness: My Journey and the Fight for Housing Security

    The warmth of a home is something many of us take for granted. But for those of us who have faced the cold nights in a van, the reality is much harsher. Housing insecurity is not just about losing a roof over your head; it’s about losing the stability, safety, and dignity that come with…

  • The Light Within: A Tale of Revelation and Acceptance

    In the dim glow of a cozy, intimate room, a young man named Alex sat nervously beside his boyfriend, Max. The soft hum of the city outside created a distant lullaby, but inside, Alex’s heart raced like a drum. Tonight was the night he had chosen to reveal his deepest secret to Max, a truth…

  • Navigating My Journey from Suppression to Self-Expression: A Pride Reflection

    As we enter Pride Month, the streets come alive with vibrant floats, flags, and even the quest for biodegradable glitter. Yet, for many of us, Pride is more than a celebration; it’s a testament to resilience, a journey from suppression to self-expression. Early Years: The Weight of Cultural Suppression Growing up, my cultural background imposed…

  • Breaking Free: A Journey Through LDS Corrective Therapy

    Content Warning: This episode contains explicit content related to corrective therapy, including discussions of inappropriate behavior and emotional distress. Listener discretion is advised. Hello, wonderful readers! It’s your quirky friend Oddly Robbie here, ready to take you on a rollercoaster ride through one of the most challenging chapters of my life. Buckle up, because today…

  • When “Normal” Isn’t Working: Rethinking How We View Autism

    Hello OddlyRobbie readers, Scrolling through the news, I stumbled upon an article in Newsweek about new research on autism. I didn’t get past the paywall, but the premise was enough to stir my thoughts. It’s disheartening to see so much effort and funding dedicated to making us fit a “normal” that doesn’t even consider our…

  • Cultural Carousel: My Global Jaunt

    Ah, the green Montanan turned Mormon missionary! Who would’ve guessed that jetting off to Japan would throw me onto a relentless cultural treadmill? There, my Japanese companion, a model of military discipline, set a grueling pace. Exhausted yet determined, I had no choice but to dive into the deep end of unfamiliar languages and customs.…

  • Echoes of a True Friend: Celebrating Gary in the OddlyRobbie Way

    Hey there, OddlyRobbie enthusiasts and kindred spirits roaming the digital and physical realms alike! Today, I’m taking a slightly different trail through the whimsical forest of life, one that meanders through the memories of a friend whose spirit dances with the northern lights and whose laughter echoes in the mountain breezes of my Montana homeland.…

  • Embracing Empathy: My Journey from Prejudice to Equality

    Into Join me as I share a deeply personal journey that winds through the terrains of identity, love, and acceptance. The Struggle for Authenticity During my deployment in regions hostile to the LGBTQ+ community, I faced a dilemma that tested my authenticity. To communicate with my partner, I had to change his name to a…

  • Love Beyond Labels: Our Sambo Journey

    Hi everyone, Oddly Robbie here. Today, I’m sharing a deeply personal aspect of my life – my journey in a sambo relationship. This bond defies traditional labels, merging friendship, love, and individuality in a beautiful way. Understanding ‘Sambo’: ‘Sambo,’ a term rooted in Swedish culture, refers to a couple living together in a committed relationship,…

  • The Worship Warship: Navigating Faith’s Virtual Realities

    Imagine a world where faith is a virtual reality game. As a child, I was entranced, eagerly awaiting my mission to spread the word. My autism made this mission my world – a singular focus where I believed I was playing a pivotal role. Embarking on the Mission: Each hymn I sang as a child…

  • Beneath Montana’s Big Sky: A Reality Check

    In the quest for a serene retreat, my partner and I heeded the call of my old Montanan hometown. Wrapped in the allure of Big Sky Country, we embarked on a quaint rural escapade. However, our quaint abode soon became a prism reflecting the stark prejudices lingering amidst Montana’s vast expanses. Our quaint homestead, nestled…