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Gay, Autistic, and Drained: When the Scene Isn’t Made for You
By Oddly Robbie, One of One They’re calling it The Year of the Daddy—that golden age of confident silver foxes, gym-toned arms, and baritone TikToks claiming things like “soft dominance” and “zaddy energy.” Add a scruffy beard, wear a tank top that fits too well, and suddenly you’re seen. Constantly. And for someone like me—gay,…
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My Daughter, the Paleontologist (And Other Radical Acts of Equality)
By Oddly Robbie – One of One When I was a young dad, I made a quiet vow: I would never box my daughters into roles someone else carved out of thin air and outdated beliefs. Back then, in our little Mormon circle, it was common—almost expected—for little girls to say, “When I grow up,…
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A Global Crossroads: Learning from History to Shape a Just Future
Intro: When History Starts to Rhyme History has a way of whispering warnings before it shouts. Right now, across the world—from Germany to the U.S., Argentina to Hungary—we’re seeing familiar patterns emerge. Far-right movements are creeping back into power, rewriting history, scapegoating the vulnerable, and treating democracy like a suggestion rather than a foundation. If…
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Blog Story: Kathy’s Journey – A Light in the Shadows
Disclaimer: This is a fictional narrative inspired by real-world challenges to foster empathy and understanding. Ricks College, Rexburg, Idaho, 1983 Kathy sat in the sterile office of the campus doctor, her hands gripping her husband’s for comfort. Married for a year and glowing with the optimism of young love, they had eagerly begun planning for…
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Breaking Down Tofu Phobia: Why Hormones Are for Everyone
Once upon a time, in the cozy chaos of my kitchen, I offered my friend a dish I’d lovingly prepared. It was a masterpiece of stir-fried vegetables, tantalizing spices, and, yes, tofu. But my friend’s reaction was priceless—a mix of horror and disbelief. “Tofu?” they asked, as if I’d served them alien food. “I can’t…
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Season 3, Blog 1: Embracing the Odd: Why One Voice Can Change Everything
Hello, fellow wanderers, dreamers, and champions of the unique! As I sit down to begin Season Three, I find myself at a crossroads I never quite expected. Numbers have always been my language—patterns, trends, the way digits seem to paint stories invisible to most. So when my blog’s readership surged, only to plummet just as…
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The T in LGBTQ+: Why Solidarity Matters More Than Ever
Let’s break down the rainbow alphabet soup we all know: L for lesbian, B for bisexual, G for gay, T for transgender, and then the ever-expanding “+” for our beautiful diversity. But today, we’re hitting pause on the roll call to focus on one letter that’s catching an outsized amount of society’s heat: the T.…
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Rising Above the Noise: We Are Not Alone
Hello, dear readers. If you’re reading this, chances are you’ve felt it, too. That rising pressure in the air. The noise that comes not just from the headlines, but from the glances, the muttered words, the silences where there should be kindness. The world feels heavier, louder, sharper than it did before. And for many…
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The Thin Line Between Home and Homelessness: My Journey and the Fight for Housing Security
The warmth of a home is something many of us take for granted. But for those of us who have faced the cold nights in a van, the reality is much harsher. Housing insecurity is not just about losing a roof over your head; it’s about losing the stability, safety, and dignity that come with…
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Experiencing the World’s Cultural Diversity: My Journey Through Contrasting Cultures
Hey, OddlyRobbie here! Traveling has given me more than just a bunch of stamps in my passport; it’s provided a front-row seat to the grand theater of global culture. From the disciplined dance of life in Japan to the passionate tango of Argentina, and from the cool, egalitarian vibe of Sweden to the deeply traditional…
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Humanity’s Report Card: How Do We Measure Up in the Eyes of AI?
Hello, OddlyRobbie readers! Ever wondered what an advanced AI thinks about how well humanity is doing in being humane? Today, let’s dive into an intriguing concept: what if AI could give us a report card on our efforts to be compassionate, fair, and kind? Here’s an evaluation that highlights both our triumphs and areas needing…
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The Light Within: A Tale of Revelation and Acceptance
In the dim glow of a cozy, intimate room, a young man named Alex sat nervously beside his boyfriend, Max. The soft hum of the city outside created a distant lullaby, but inside, Alex’s heart raced like a drum. Tonight was the night he had chosen to reveal his deepest secret to Max, a truth…
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Navigating My Journey from Suppression to Self-Expression: A Pride Reflection
As we enter Pride Month, the streets come alive with vibrant floats, flags, and even the quest for biodegradable glitter. Yet, for many of us, Pride is more than a celebration; it’s a testament to resilience, a journey from suppression to self-expression. Early Years: The Weight of Cultural Suppression Growing up, my cultural background imposed…
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Breaking Free: A Journey Through LDS Corrective Therapy
Content Warning: This episode contains explicit content related to corrective therapy, including discussions of inappropriate behavior and emotional distress. Listener discretion is advised. Hello, wonderful readers! It’s your quirky friend Oddly Robbie here, ready to take you on a rollercoaster ride through one of the most challenging chapters of my life. Buckle up, because today…
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When “Normal” Isn’t Working: Rethinking How We View Autism
Hello OddlyRobbie readers, Scrolling through the news, I stumbled upon an article in Newsweek about new research on autism. I didn’t get past the paywall, but the premise was enough to stir my thoughts. It’s disheartening to see so much effort and funding dedicated to making us fit a “normal” that doesn’t even consider our…
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Dehumanization: A Logical Perspective (special edition)
Across various cultures, there’s often an implicit agreement to dehumanize neighboring communities. My aim here is not to justify this behavior or to label it as good or bad but rather to examine it from a logical perspective. Understanding Dehumanization Dehumanization enables us to mentally override our empathy and engage in acts like warfare against…
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The Worship Warship: Navigating Faith’s Virtual Realities
Imagine a world where faith is a virtual reality game. As a child, I was entranced, eagerly awaiting my mission to spread the word. My autism made this mission my world – a singular focus where I believed I was playing a pivotal role. Embarking on the Mission: Each hymn I sang as a child…
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IA Tango: Mi baile con un compañero digital
Introducción Vivimos en una era en la que las líneas entre el mundo virtual y el real son cada vez más borrosas. Como alguien con una lente única, moldeada por mis experiencias de vida, incluido el autismo, el servicio militar y una identidad LGBTQ+, a menudo he encontrado consuelo y expresión en entornos 3D como…
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Beneath Montana’s Big Sky: A Reality Check
In the quest for a serene retreat, my partner and I heeded the call of my old Montanan hometown. Wrapped in the allure of Big Sky Country, we embarked on a quaint rural escapade. However, our quaint abode soon became a prism reflecting the stark prejudices lingering amidst Montana’s vast expanses. Our quaint homestead, nestled…